Writer-director Travis Mathews used the actors’ own names and much of their real-life stories for this 2012 film about a gay man in his mid-30s forced to move home from San Francisco.

While the debate about if first time anal sex should hurt or not rages on (spoiler alert: it sometimes does, but doesn’t have to), we have a couple more movies for you based on your feedback.Ĭheck out the new suggestions below, pulled directly from the amazing Queerty readers comments, and let us know if we missed any! According to some of our intrepid readers we missed out on a whole slew of realistic gay sex scenes in movies.